As we watch the news about the recent disaster in Japan, it seems like a worst-case scenario. It is hard to imagine that almost 25,000 are feared dead following the 9.0 earthquake and tsunami on March 11. Now we watch the looming nuclear catastrophe. Our hearts break as we read the headlines and pray for the people of Japan.
We live in a fallen, fragile, and fractured world. Nothing in this life is ultimately stable or reliable – not our economy, not the rulers of nations, not even the earth under our feet. In Mark 13:7-8, Jesus describes these times as the “beginning of sorrows” when nations rise against nations, earthquakes abound, and the world is full of famines and troubles. He speaks of the hatred of the world toward Christ-followers and unprecedented family strife. False teaching will proliferate. Jesus assures us, “Do not be troubled; for such things must happen, but the end is not yet...the gospel must first be preached to all the nations” (Mark 13:7 &10).
Our Determination in the Midst of Disaster
Even back in the Psalms, we see the description of worst-case scenarios when the “mountains are carried into the midst of the sea.” It describes times when “the waters roar” and are “troubled” and the hills are shaken by violence (Psalm 46:2). In light of these natural disasters inflicting this temporary and troubled earth, how should we respond? What is our recourse? How can we cope?
Here are four ideas from Psalm 46.
God’s presence is our ultimate help and joy
This Psalm begins with this promise, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, even though....” How would you finish that thought? No matter what we face and regardless of the frailty of this present world, God’s “very present” help provides a refuge and gives strength to our souls, dispelling our fears regardless of the troubles we face.
The Psalm further encourages us, “There is a river whose streams shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacle of the Most High. God is in the midst of her, she shall not be moved; God shall help her, just at the break of dawn.” This picture of a river infusing the city of God with gladness, security, and provision assures us that His presence will flood the “tabernacle” of our hearts just when we need it – even in a worst-case scenario. Supernatural joy that transcends our circumstances and intellect can stabilize and help us in practical ways, just when we need it.
God’s sovereignty is our ultimate assurance
This Lord, who is so present in our troubles and so sufficient for our souls, is all-powerful. The Psalmist explains, “The nations raged, the kingdoms were moved; He uttered His voice, the earth melted. Come behold the works of the LORD, Who has made desolations in the earth. He makes wars cease to the end of the earth; He breaks the bow and cuts the spear in two; He burns the chariot in the fire.” Whether we understand the purpose behind present disasters or not, some things are clear: God’s power melts the earth. He can stop wars and armies. He rules in sovereign power.
There are times when I am not able to subject God’s sovereignty and power to my limited and feeble sense of justice. I do not fathom the purpose behind the catastrophes of the times but I know the One who controls the times. Choosing to trust Him with a whole heart, in spite of my narrow understanding, brings reassurance and trust as I try to make sense of the trajectory of this precarious world.
God’s glory is our ultimate ambition
We come to the most familiar verse from the Psalm, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!” The marginal notes also describe this passage with these synonymous ideas: “Cease striving,” “Let go,” or “Relax.” In our tendency to worry, to manipulate, to seek to control the circumstances of life – we must recognize that He will ultimately be exalted over and by His creation. A passion for His supreme glory empowers us to experience an abiding peace and rest.
God’s character is our ultimate security
One phrase is repeated twice in this Psalm: “The LORD of hosts is with us; The God of Jacob is our refuge”(vv. 7 & 11). Our God is the master over all created agencies and forces. He created, maintains, and rules over creation in great power. He is the “Strong Tower” available to His children when we fail and are powerless. When we are completely inadequate with no other help, the LORD of the armies of heaven and earth is our comfort and confidence. Why? He is WITH US. His presence cannot be lessened or loosened by tragedy. He is our REFUGE. Nothing else in life is sure. Even in the worst-case scenario, He is still, and always will be, the Lord of Hosts.
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
Monday, April 11, 2011
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Scars - The Ultimate Testimony of an Authentic Life
Perhaps my most often used quote is, “The comfort zone is the danger zone.” I believe this is true because the Bible says that “without faith it is impossible to please Him” (Hebrews 11:6). Those who are content to stay in the comfort zone of life seldom live by faith, and ultimately displease God.
An illustration of this kind of costly faith is found in Moses, who preferred to “suffer affliction with the people of God than to enjoy the passing pleasures of sin, esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt; for he looked to the reward” (Hebrews 11:25-26). Accordingly, I believe the “comfort zone” is dangerous because it can easily result in a life that avoids the value of suffering and lacks the credibility of scars.
The Mark of a Credible, Authentic Minister
At the end his letter to the Galatians, Paul made an amazing statement as he responded to the criticism he constantly endured from false teachers. He simply stated, “From now on let no one trouble me, for I bear in my body the marks of the Lord Jesus” (Galatians 6:17). His scars, inflicted because of his obedience, were the testimony of a credible leader.
Similarly, when dealing with the detractors and false teachers that had infiltrated the Corinthian church, he asked, “Are they ministers of Christ?” In other words, Paul poses the question about the qualities of true servants of Christ. In his answer he did not speak of theological degrees, talent, giftedness, position, wealth, ministry size, or any other common measuring sticks in today’s society. Instead, he spoke of his incredible sufferings as the mark of an authentic servant of Christ. He referenced beatings, prison, various brushes with death, many kinds of dangers, sleeplessness, hunger, and thirst. Then he writes, “Besides the other things, what comes upon me daily: my deep concern for all the churches” (2 Corinthians 11:23-28). He lives with a scarred body and a heavy heart for the sake of Christ’s calling on his life.
Choosing the Pathway of Price
In Paul, we find a leader who cared little about position, recognition, prosperity, or ease. Paul knew that he was called to choose the pathway of price if his life was going to matter for the Gospel and if he was going to prove to be a true follower of his Lord Jesus Christ.
In fact, Paul genuinely embraced the value of his scars. For example (and in brief summary):
- He knew that the more he suffered, the more he would receive supernatural consolation from God, and the more capable he would be in passing this consolation on in ministry to others (2 Corinthians 1:5-7).
- He knew that the more closely he walked in the footsteps of Jesus and His sufferings, the more the life of Jesus would be manifested in and through him in serving Christ’s body (2 Corinthians 4:10; Colossians 1:24).
- He understood that his desire to intimately know Christ also involved the “fellowship of His sufferings” (Philippians 3:10).
- He knew that the greater the suffering this side of eternity, the greater and surer the glory on the other side of eternity (Romans 8:17; Colossians 1:24; 2 Timothy 1:12).
- He knew that one of the marks of a truly godly life is the readiness to be scarred and even face persecution (2 Timothy 3:12).
Jesus, Our Scarred Savior
The ultimate example of a joyfully scarred leader is our Master Jesus, who willingly gave up the rights to His pre-incarnate glory to choose a path of no reputation. He pursued the life of a bond slave and embraced the humbling obedience of a horrific death on the cross (Philippians 2:5-9).
Hebrews 5:8 tells us, “Though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered.” It is not that Jesus was disobedient at any point – but that His obedience to the call of the cross necessitated death. When appearing to His disciples after His resurrection, the scars in His hands, feet, and side provided authentic proof of His identity (John 20:20; Luke 24:29).
Where are Your Scars?
So, we all must ask – where are my scars? How have I stepped beyond the “comfort zone” of the current cultural norms of modern-day Christianity to pay a substantive price for my faith? The cost might be experienced in our finances, our security, our family, relationships, and yes – even our physical well-being. In today’s world, it is more imperative than ever that we CHOOSE a pathway of price rather than stroll down the easy-street of a convenient faith.
- When a leader has success without scars, he has shortchanged character and forfeited eternal reward.
- When a disciple is learning Bible truths but has no scars, he is in danger of a self-deceived heart that accumulates ideas applied only in a sterile laboratory rather than the battle field.
- When a believer chooses to simply climb the ladder of ecclesiastical advancement but not embrace choices that are costly, he may have an appearance of godliness but lack the power thereof.
Going Deep – Getting Scarred
We’ve all heard the wisdom, “You take care of the depth of your ministry and God will take care of the breadth.” We must remember that this depth is more than theological learning, prayer times, active service, and emotive worship. Depth comes when the very soul of our existence is tested by the trials we endure through choices of adventuring faith and costly obedience.
Then, we can someday look at those who are following us and say, “See my scars. They are the marks of an obedient disciple and the reminders of the great joy of following in the footsteps of a nail-scarred Savior.” That is the adventure and goal of an authentic disciple.
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
An illustration of this kind of costly faith is found in Moses, who preferred to “suffer affliction with the people of God than to enjoy the passing pleasures of sin, esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt; for he looked to the reward” (Hebrews 11:25-26). Accordingly, I believe the “comfort zone” is dangerous because it can easily result in a life that avoids the value of suffering and lacks the credibility of scars.
The Mark of a Credible, Authentic Minister
At the end his letter to the Galatians, Paul made an amazing statement as he responded to the criticism he constantly endured from false teachers. He simply stated, “From now on let no one trouble me, for I bear in my body the marks of the Lord Jesus” (Galatians 6:17). His scars, inflicted because of his obedience, were the testimony of a credible leader.
Similarly, when dealing with the detractors and false teachers that had infiltrated the Corinthian church, he asked, “Are they ministers of Christ?” In other words, Paul poses the question about the qualities of true servants of Christ. In his answer he did not speak of theological degrees, talent, giftedness, position, wealth, ministry size, or any other common measuring sticks in today’s society. Instead, he spoke of his incredible sufferings as the mark of an authentic servant of Christ. He referenced beatings, prison, various brushes with death, many kinds of dangers, sleeplessness, hunger, and thirst. Then he writes, “Besides the other things, what comes upon me daily: my deep concern for all the churches” (2 Corinthians 11:23-28). He lives with a scarred body and a heavy heart for the sake of Christ’s calling on his life.
Choosing the Pathway of Price
In Paul, we find a leader who cared little about position, recognition, prosperity, or ease. Paul knew that he was called to choose the pathway of price if his life was going to matter for the Gospel and if he was going to prove to be a true follower of his Lord Jesus Christ.
In fact, Paul genuinely embraced the value of his scars. For example (and in brief summary):
- He knew that the more he suffered, the more he would receive supernatural consolation from God, and the more capable he would be in passing this consolation on in ministry to others (2 Corinthians 1:5-7).
- He knew that the more closely he walked in the footsteps of Jesus and His sufferings, the more the life of Jesus would be manifested in and through him in serving Christ’s body (2 Corinthians 4:10; Colossians 1:24).
- He understood that his desire to intimately know Christ also involved the “fellowship of His sufferings” (Philippians 3:10).
- He knew that the greater the suffering this side of eternity, the greater and surer the glory on the other side of eternity (Romans 8:17; Colossians 1:24; 2 Timothy 1:12).
- He knew that one of the marks of a truly godly life is the readiness to be scarred and even face persecution (2 Timothy 3:12).
Jesus, Our Scarred Savior
The ultimate example of a joyfully scarred leader is our Master Jesus, who willingly gave up the rights to His pre-incarnate glory to choose a path of no reputation. He pursued the life of a bond slave and embraced the humbling obedience of a horrific death on the cross (Philippians 2:5-9).
Hebrews 5:8 tells us, “Though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered.” It is not that Jesus was disobedient at any point – but that His obedience to the call of the cross necessitated death. When appearing to His disciples after His resurrection, the scars in His hands, feet, and side provided authentic proof of His identity (John 20:20; Luke 24:29).
Where are Your Scars?
So, we all must ask – where are my scars? How have I stepped beyond the “comfort zone” of the current cultural norms of modern-day Christianity to pay a substantive price for my faith? The cost might be experienced in our finances, our security, our family, relationships, and yes – even our physical well-being. In today’s world, it is more imperative than ever that we CHOOSE a pathway of price rather than stroll down the easy-street of a convenient faith.
- When a leader has success without scars, he has shortchanged character and forfeited eternal reward.
- When a disciple is learning Bible truths but has no scars, he is in danger of a self-deceived heart that accumulates ideas applied only in a sterile laboratory rather than the battle field.
- When a believer chooses to simply climb the ladder of ecclesiastical advancement but not embrace choices that are costly, he may have an appearance of godliness but lack the power thereof.
Going Deep – Getting Scarred
We’ve all heard the wisdom, “You take care of the depth of your ministry and God will take care of the breadth.” We must remember that this depth is more than theological learning, prayer times, active service, and emotive worship. Depth comes when the very soul of our existence is tested by the trials we endure through choices of adventuring faith and costly obedience.
Then, we can someday look at those who are following us and say, “See my scars. They are the marks of an obedient disciple and the reminders of the great joy of following in the footsteps of a nail-scarred Savior.” That is the adventure and goal of an authentic disciple.
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
Intimacy Precedes Impact
The life and ministry of Jesus is our ultimate model for living. One of the principles that resounds in the Gospel accounts in and through His life is that authentic intimacy precedes eternal impact. Because every true believer has a longing for intimacy with God and desire for a life that matters in the lives of others, it is important to study the example of Jesus and choose to walk in His steps.
Jesus’ Pursuit of Intimacy
Prior to starting His public ministry, the Lord Jesus spent 40 days in the wilderness in prayer and fasting, enjoying solitary communion with the Father. This incredible model stands in dramatic contrast to our modern rush to public ministry as we tend to speed our way through academic preparation, job placement, and ministry output. The pattern of empowering intimacy can get lost in the fray of productivity.
Prior to selecting the apostles, Jesus spent all night in prayer (Luke 6:12), demonstrating the kind of intimacy that produces good leadership choices. Today we tend to rely on nominating committees and popular voting rather than extraordinary alignment with the heart and will of God through prayer.
Mark 3:14 describes His design for the twelve He selected where it records, “Then He appointed twelve, that they might be with Him and that He might send them out to preach.” Jesus first wanted His followers to “be with Him” in order to learn His ways, experience His heart, and understand His power as essential ingredients to life-changing impact.
Throughout His ministry we find Jesus relentlessly modeling intimacy with the Father as He rose up early in the morning to pray (Mark 1:35). He retreated to solitary places to pray (Mark 6:46; Luke 5:16), took His disciples with Him for seasons of extraordinary prayer (Luke 9:28, 22:40), and trusted the Father for strength and wisdom to fulfill His mission (Matthew 26:39; John 17).
Learning from Him
The great incentive for our praying is to walk, live, and serve as Jesus did. I often say that there is a sense in which Jesus was the only one to walk this earth who did not need to pray, but did – in order to help those of us who do need to pray, but don’t, learn how to do it. He was fully God and fully man. As divine, He enjoyed constant union with the Father. As man, Jesus' prayer life modeled for us what it meant to consciously rely on the Father.
Early Leaders Learn and Live the Lesson
After Christ’s death, burial, and resurrection the work of the Gospel would be advanced through a small band of 120 disciples. They could not accomplish the mission without the supernatural empowerment of the Spirit. Again, intimacy preceded impact as Jesus commanded them to wait in an upper room where they prayed for 10 days.
The early disciples demonstrated this truth throughout their high-impact advancement of the Gospel. As soon as the church was birthed, they locked in to a pattern of pursuing intimacy (Acts 2:42). After facing persecution they came back to extraordinary worship-based prayer (Acts 4:23-31). When coping with the growing pains of rapidly advancing ministry, the leaders remained resolute on their need for intimacy via collective prayer and the Word (Acts 6:4).
Paul also embraced this model of extraordinary intimacy prior to public ministry when he spent three years in the Arabian desert prior to his public ministry (Galatians 1:17-18). While we do not know the exact details of his time in Arabia, there is no doubt that a pursuit of a great intimacy with Christ was part of his experience. The launch of international missions emerges from a season of intimacy as Paul joined the leaders in Antioch as they fasted and ministered to the Lord (Acts 13:1-2). From the depths of a prison, Paul was beaten, bloody, and bruised – but He worshiped, sang, and prayed. Miraculous impact followed. The prison shook, prisoners were released, the Gospel went forward, and before the end of the night the jailor and his family were converted and baptized (Acts 16:25-34).
In all of these instances, early church leaders were not just praying “about things” but were spending time “with Someone” as the life-source of all they were called to be and do. They had learned from Christ’s model and were resolute to do His work in His power.
Empowered Living
In a recent interview with Pastor Alistair Begg, he noted, “We can do more than pray, after we have prayed, but we cannot do more than pray before we have prayed.” He went on to suggest that for every minute of our sermon delivery, we should spend 15 minutes in prayer. This would equate to 10 hours of prayer prior to the Sunday message. What a great goal and illustration of the principle of intimacy preceding impact. (You can see excerpts of this interview at www.64fellowship.com).
As we seek to influence others for Christ in this life, there are many tools and opportunities. Still, we must remember that ministry is not so much a thing that we produce for Jesus. Rather, it is the power of His life, working in and through us. Intimacy precedes and sustains impact. As Jesus said, “Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me. I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing” (John 15:4-5).
“Lord, let us seek You passionately, then allow you to live Your life through us to change this world by the power of Your Gospel.”
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
Jesus’ Pursuit of Intimacy
Prior to starting His public ministry, the Lord Jesus spent 40 days in the wilderness in prayer and fasting, enjoying solitary communion with the Father. This incredible model stands in dramatic contrast to our modern rush to public ministry as we tend to speed our way through academic preparation, job placement, and ministry output. The pattern of empowering intimacy can get lost in the fray of productivity.
Prior to selecting the apostles, Jesus spent all night in prayer (Luke 6:12), demonstrating the kind of intimacy that produces good leadership choices. Today we tend to rely on nominating committees and popular voting rather than extraordinary alignment with the heart and will of God through prayer.
Mark 3:14 describes His design for the twelve He selected where it records, “Then He appointed twelve, that they might be with Him and that He might send them out to preach.” Jesus first wanted His followers to “be with Him” in order to learn His ways, experience His heart, and understand His power as essential ingredients to life-changing impact.
Throughout His ministry we find Jesus relentlessly modeling intimacy with the Father as He rose up early in the morning to pray (Mark 1:35). He retreated to solitary places to pray (Mark 6:46; Luke 5:16), took His disciples with Him for seasons of extraordinary prayer (Luke 9:28, 22:40), and trusted the Father for strength and wisdom to fulfill His mission (Matthew 26:39; John 17).
Learning from Him
The great incentive for our praying is to walk, live, and serve as Jesus did. I often say that there is a sense in which Jesus was the only one to walk this earth who did not need to pray, but did – in order to help those of us who do need to pray, but don’t, learn how to do it. He was fully God and fully man. As divine, He enjoyed constant union with the Father. As man, Jesus' prayer life modeled for us what it meant to consciously rely on the Father.
Early Leaders Learn and Live the Lesson
After Christ’s death, burial, and resurrection the work of the Gospel would be advanced through a small band of 120 disciples. They could not accomplish the mission without the supernatural empowerment of the Spirit. Again, intimacy preceded impact as Jesus commanded them to wait in an upper room where they prayed for 10 days.
The early disciples demonstrated this truth throughout their high-impact advancement of the Gospel. As soon as the church was birthed, they locked in to a pattern of pursuing intimacy (Acts 2:42). After facing persecution they came back to extraordinary worship-based prayer (Acts 4:23-31). When coping with the growing pains of rapidly advancing ministry, the leaders remained resolute on their need for intimacy via collective prayer and the Word (Acts 6:4).
Paul also embraced this model of extraordinary intimacy prior to public ministry when he spent three years in the Arabian desert prior to his public ministry (Galatians 1:17-18). While we do not know the exact details of his time in Arabia, there is no doubt that a pursuit of a great intimacy with Christ was part of his experience. The launch of international missions emerges from a season of intimacy as Paul joined the leaders in Antioch as they fasted and ministered to the Lord (Acts 13:1-2). From the depths of a prison, Paul was beaten, bloody, and bruised – but He worshiped, sang, and prayed. Miraculous impact followed. The prison shook, prisoners were released, the Gospel went forward, and before the end of the night the jailor and his family were converted and baptized (Acts 16:25-34).
In all of these instances, early church leaders were not just praying “about things” but were spending time “with Someone” as the life-source of all they were called to be and do. They had learned from Christ’s model and were resolute to do His work in His power.
Empowered Living
In a recent interview with Pastor Alistair Begg, he noted, “We can do more than pray, after we have prayed, but we cannot do more than pray before we have prayed.” He went on to suggest that for every minute of our sermon delivery, we should spend 15 minutes in prayer. This would equate to 10 hours of prayer prior to the Sunday message. What a great goal and illustration of the principle of intimacy preceding impact. (You can see excerpts of this interview at www.64fellowship.com).
As we seek to influence others for Christ in this life, there are many tools and opportunities. Still, we must remember that ministry is not so much a thing that we produce for Jesus. Rather, it is the power of His life, working in and through us. Intimacy precedes and sustains impact. As Jesus said, “Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me. I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing” (John 15:4-5).
“Lord, let us seek You passionately, then allow you to live Your life through us to change this world by the power of Your Gospel.”
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
Count YOUR Blessings (Not Everyone Else's)!
Recently in a conversation with a downcast friend who seemed to be fixated on all the “good things” that happen to “everyone else”, I spontaneously suggested, “It would probably help you to count YOUR OWN blessings instead of everyone else’s.” This is not a thought I’d really considered before – but in the moment, it seemed to be an appropriate word of counsel to help this struggling soul find perspective.
The Painful Process of Losing Spiritual Health
All too often we can find ourselves on a slippery slope of spiritual demise simply by losing focus. Soon, we are unhappy, negative, and unable to see the amazing goodness of God in our own journey. As I have considered this temptation, I see a five-step process of losing perspective when we stop counting our blessings.
1. Doubtful Distraction – Just as the serpent in the garden lured Eve to doubt the veracity of God’s character and promise, then fixate on the deadly fruit, so his fiery darts come against our minds daily to distract us from a focus on the goodness of God. We become preoccupied by thoughts of all the other “attractive options” that promote an empty promise of happiness. Instead of worship, we wonder about what could be “if” we were someone else, lived somewhere else, had something else.
2. Surface Comparison – With our eyes off the Lord, we look around and begin to compare. I often say, “Comparison is an ugly game that no one ever wins.” If you compare yourself favorably, it engenders pride. If you compare yourself unfavorably, it fosters self-pity. In the end, comparison is selfish and the next dreadful step in a journey away from the goodness and providence of God.
3. Defeating Discontent – A chronically unhappy spirit is the inevitable outcome. Instead of savoring the benevolence of God, we question His care for us. This is the antithesis of Paul’s example and admonition. In Philippians 4:8-13 he demonstrates the power of fixing our thoughts on things good, true, and praiseworthy. He emphasizes finding our joy in the Lord, not in self or circumstances. He demonstrates perfect contentment in any and every situation (as he writes from prison). He lives with deep faith in Christ, who strengthens him to attempt and endure all things. What a splendid and healthy way to live.
4. Perilous Ingratitude – Discontent leads to ingratitude. This is a dangerous spiritual condition in which we become blinded from our blessings and distant from the “Fount of Every Blessing.” In Romans chapter one, Paul gives a potent description of progressive spiritual demise, from which no one is immune. Speaking of the tragedy of ingratitude he writes, “They know God, but they do not give him the honor that belongs to him, nor do they thank him. Instead, their thoughts have become complete nonsense, and their empty minds are filled with darkness” (Romans 1:21 – TEV). Dangerous stuff.
5. Spiritual Demise – As the first chapter of Romans describes, and as we have all witnessed in the reality of life, the result is a place of spiritual emptiness, doubt, and distrust. This journey becomes another story of spiritual tragedy that hurts not just the individual that has lost touch with the blessings and character of God, but a wider circle of loved ones and friends. Ultimately, Christ is dishonored by one of His own and His heart is broken by a child that He has constantly loved and blessed in countless ways. Unfortunately, they stopped noticing.
Wisdom From a Friend
The proven wisdom of the hymn-writer Johnson Oatman, Jr. (a businessman who wrote the lyrics to over 500 hymns) seems to come to life with fresh relevance. These encouraging admonitions, published in 1897, could easily express the paragraphs of a letter from a caring friend. Read them again as if they were.
When upon life's billows you are tempest tossed,
When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,
Count your many blessings, name them one by one,
And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.
When you look at others with their lands and gold,
Think that Christ has promised you His wealth untold;
Count your many blessings. Wealth can never buy
Your reward in heaven, nor your home on high.
Are you ever burdened with a load of care?
Does the cross seem heavy you are called to bear?
Count your many blessings, every doubt will fly,
And you will keep singing as the days go by.
So, amid the conflict whether great or small,
Do not be disheartened, God is over all;
Count your many blessings, angels will attend,
Help and comfort give you to your journey's end.
Count your blessings, name them one by one,
Count your blessings, see what God hath done!
Count your blessings, name them one by one,
Count your many blessings, see what God hath done!
Friend, I encourage you today to count YOUR blessings, not someone else’s. Name them one by one. Delight in them. Speak them out. Let grateful worship fill your heart. Turn your eyes upon Jesus and His goodness. The things of earth, and your skewed perspective about it all, will grow strangely dim. You will be beautifully surprised by the Lord’s goodness and contrite over your unnecessary and self-destructive discontent. See what God has done – and live for His glory with a worshiping, not a wondering and wandering, heart. It will be well with your soul.
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
The Painful Process of Losing Spiritual Health
All too often we can find ourselves on a slippery slope of spiritual demise simply by losing focus. Soon, we are unhappy, negative, and unable to see the amazing goodness of God in our own journey. As I have considered this temptation, I see a five-step process of losing perspective when we stop counting our blessings.
1. Doubtful Distraction – Just as the serpent in the garden lured Eve to doubt the veracity of God’s character and promise, then fixate on the deadly fruit, so his fiery darts come against our minds daily to distract us from a focus on the goodness of God. We become preoccupied by thoughts of all the other “attractive options” that promote an empty promise of happiness. Instead of worship, we wonder about what could be “if” we were someone else, lived somewhere else, had something else.
2. Surface Comparison – With our eyes off the Lord, we look around and begin to compare. I often say, “Comparison is an ugly game that no one ever wins.” If you compare yourself favorably, it engenders pride. If you compare yourself unfavorably, it fosters self-pity. In the end, comparison is selfish and the next dreadful step in a journey away from the goodness and providence of God.
3. Defeating Discontent – A chronically unhappy spirit is the inevitable outcome. Instead of savoring the benevolence of God, we question His care for us. This is the antithesis of Paul’s example and admonition. In Philippians 4:8-13 he demonstrates the power of fixing our thoughts on things good, true, and praiseworthy. He emphasizes finding our joy in the Lord, not in self or circumstances. He demonstrates perfect contentment in any and every situation (as he writes from prison). He lives with deep faith in Christ, who strengthens him to attempt and endure all things. What a splendid and healthy way to live.
4. Perilous Ingratitude – Discontent leads to ingratitude. This is a dangerous spiritual condition in which we become blinded from our blessings and distant from the “Fount of Every Blessing.” In Romans chapter one, Paul gives a potent description of progressive spiritual demise, from which no one is immune. Speaking of the tragedy of ingratitude he writes, “They know God, but they do not give him the honor that belongs to him, nor do they thank him. Instead, their thoughts have become complete nonsense, and their empty minds are filled with darkness” (Romans 1:21 – TEV). Dangerous stuff.
5. Spiritual Demise – As the first chapter of Romans describes, and as we have all witnessed in the reality of life, the result is a place of spiritual emptiness, doubt, and distrust. This journey becomes another story of spiritual tragedy that hurts not just the individual that has lost touch with the blessings and character of God, but a wider circle of loved ones and friends. Ultimately, Christ is dishonored by one of His own and His heart is broken by a child that He has constantly loved and blessed in countless ways. Unfortunately, they stopped noticing.
Wisdom From a Friend
The proven wisdom of the hymn-writer Johnson Oatman, Jr. (a businessman who wrote the lyrics to over 500 hymns) seems to come to life with fresh relevance. These encouraging admonitions, published in 1897, could easily express the paragraphs of a letter from a caring friend. Read them again as if they were.
When upon life's billows you are tempest tossed,
When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,
Count your many blessings, name them one by one,
And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.
When you look at others with their lands and gold,
Think that Christ has promised you His wealth untold;
Count your many blessings. Wealth can never buy
Your reward in heaven, nor your home on high.
Are you ever burdened with a load of care?
Does the cross seem heavy you are called to bear?
Count your many blessings, every doubt will fly,
And you will keep singing as the days go by.
So, amid the conflict whether great or small,
Do not be disheartened, God is over all;
Count your many blessings, angels will attend,
Help and comfort give you to your journey's end.
Count your blessings, name them one by one,
Count your blessings, see what God hath done!
Count your blessings, name them one by one,
Count your many blessings, see what God hath done!
Friend, I encourage you today to count YOUR blessings, not someone else’s. Name them one by one. Delight in them. Speak them out. Let grateful worship fill your heart. Turn your eyes upon Jesus and His goodness. The things of earth, and your skewed perspective about it all, will grow strangely dim. You will be beautifully surprised by the Lord’s goodness and contrite over your unnecessary and self-destructive discontent. See what God has done – and live for His glory with a worshiping, not a wondering and wandering, heart. It will be well with your soul.
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Significance Beyond a Super Bowl
Football fans are dialed in with great intensity as another season has climaxed in the playoffs, and soon – the Super Bowl. Countless millions of dollars are pouring out in player salaries, stadium costs, ticket sales, television coverage, and advertising to fuel the appetites of those who love the sport.
In a matter of days another Super Bowl champion will triumph and the season will be over. Fans will struggle through the letdown of that Sunday afternoon void. In the meantime, coaches will move on, players will be traded, and football news will fade from the front page. Life will go on. Soon most people will eventually forget who won the ultimate football contest this year, last year, or five years ago.
In spite of the temporal nature of the game, we know the team that eventually wins has understood that their victory was the result of months, even many years, of hard work, rigid individual and team discipline, determination, and extraordinary effort. Super Bowl championships are not won by the unmotivated, lazy, and uncommitted.
Our UFC (Ultimate Faith Contest)
Similarly, Christians are in a contest, often pictured as a race. The requirements and rewards are clear. The ramifications of our engagement in this contest are eternal and will not be forgotten. At stake are issues that far eclipse the significance of all the Super Bowls that have ever been played.
The Apostle Paul wrote,
“Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it. And everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown. Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air. But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.” 1 Corinthians 9:24-27
Paul reminds us of the eternal nature of our contest. We are in a race that demands our best and highest commitment. While our efforts do not, and should not, attract the endorsements of advertisers and the accolades of the media, our exploits are observed 24/7 by our Christ and will never be forgotten. Our struggle is not against the talent and techniques of a human opponent but against unseen forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). The eternal destiny of human souls is at stake in all we do.
Rewards and Requirements
For every true believer the reward for effort and endurance is sure. An “imperishable crown”, more valuable than the Vince Lombardi trophy, is promised. This is not a prize that can be tarnished, forgotten, lost, or stolen. Of course, the Bible speaks of numerous crowns (1 Thessalonians 2:9; 2 Timothy 4:8; 1 Peter 5:4; James 1:12) and reminds us that all of them will be cast before the worthy and reigning Christ as an expression of our capacity to bring Him glory for all eternity (Revelation 4:10-11).
Yet, not everyone on the “field” of Christian activity will actually be rewarded. There are certain requirements that precede eternal recompense.
An authentic relationship – Matthew 7:21-23 describes the account of “many” who will enter eternity with the expectation of reward for their religious exploits of preaching and working miracles, only to discover that their motive and the energy by which they performed their works was not authentic. They lacked a genuine, saving relationship with Christ. Clearly, only those who have been born again, evidenced by spiritual fruit, will receive the crowns of the faithful.
An attentive resolve – Paul writes, “I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air.” Our contest is not casual or haphazard. With daily tenacity and precision we must be fully engaged in the spiritual battle, aware of the enemy we are facing, the stakes of the warfare, and the power by which we are able to prevail.
An astute restraint – Paul’s perceptive words are riveting: “But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.” Paul knew that even he was not above losing his reward if he did not play by the rules and with the proper restraint. He knew he needed daily grace to run the race (1 Corinthians 15:10; Titus 2:11 &12).
These ideas are similar to his teaching in 1 Corinthians 3:12-15:
”Now if anyone builds on this foundation (Christ) with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, each one's work will become clear; for the Day will declare it, because it will be revealed by fire; and the fire will test each one's work, of what sort it is. If anyone's work which he has built on it endures, he will receive a reward. If anyone's work is burned, he will suffer loss; but he himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.”
Once genuinely converted, we are on the “team” and destined for heaven. How we play the game determines the reception or loss of eternal reward. We must serve with pure motives, a prayerful empowerment, a disciplined life, and an enduring faith.
Our Compelling and Continuing Contest
So as millions of viewers and billions of dollars are absorbed in the Super Bowl of football in just a matter of days, it is important to remember that as Christ-followers we do not look at “things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal” (2 Corinthians 4:18). For all of its temporary fame, fortune, and fun, the Super Bowl will soon fade into history and eventually burn into oblivion along with everything else in this temporary world. On the Monday after the big game, remember that your battle continues. It requires your grace-empowered best. It matters in the ultimate sense. The “trophies” are eternal.
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
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Desperate for Direction
In a matter of days another Super Bowl champion will triumph and the season will be over. Fans will struggle through the letdown of that Sunday afternoon void. In the meantime, coaches will move on, players will be traded, and football news will fade from the front page. Life will go on. Soon most people will eventually forget who won the ultimate football contest this year, last year, or five years ago.
In spite of the temporal nature of the game, we know the team that eventually wins has understood that their victory was the result of months, even many years, of hard work, rigid individual and team discipline, determination, and extraordinary effort. Super Bowl championships are not won by the unmotivated, lazy, and uncommitted.
Our UFC (Ultimate Faith Contest)
Similarly, Christians are in a contest, often pictured as a race. The requirements and rewards are clear. The ramifications of our engagement in this contest are eternal and will not be forgotten. At stake are issues that far eclipse the significance of all the Super Bowls that have ever been played.
The Apostle Paul wrote,
“Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it. And everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown. Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air. But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.” 1 Corinthians 9:24-27
Paul reminds us of the eternal nature of our contest. We are in a race that demands our best and highest commitment. While our efforts do not, and should not, attract the endorsements of advertisers and the accolades of the media, our exploits are observed 24/7 by our Christ and will never be forgotten. Our struggle is not against the talent and techniques of a human opponent but against unseen forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). The eternal destiny of human souls is at stake in all we do.
Rewards and Requirements
For every true believer the reward for effort and endurance is sure. An “imperishable crown”, more valuable than the Vince Lombardi trophy, is promised. This is not a prize that can be tarnished, forgotten, lost, or stolen. Of course, the Bible speaks of numerous crowns (1 Thessalonians 2:9; 2 Timothy 4:8; 1 Peter 5:4; James 1:12) and reminds us that all of them will be cast before the worthy and reigning Christ as an expression of our capacity to bring Him glory for all eternity (Revelation 4:10-11).
Yet, not everyone on the “field” of Christian activity will actually be rewarded. There are certain requirements that precede eternal recompense.
An authentic relationship – Matthew 7:21-23 describes the account of “many” who will enter eternity with the expectation of reward for their religious exploits of preaching and working miracles, only to discover that their motive and the energy by which they performed their works was not authentic. They lacked a genuine, saving relationship with Christ. Clearly, only those who have been born again, evidenced by spiritual fruit, will receive the crowns of the faithful.
An attentive resolve – Paul writes, “I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air.” Our contest is not casual or haphazard. With daily tenacity and precision we must be fully engaged in the spiritual battle, aware of the enemy we are facing, the stakes of the warfare, and the power by which we are able to prevail.
An astute restraint – Paul’s perceptive words are riveting: “But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.” Paul knew that even he was not above losing his reward if he did not play by the rules and with the proper restraint. He knew he needed daily grace to run the race (1 Corinthians 15:10; Titus 2:11 &12).
These ideas are similar to his teaching in 1 Corinthians 3:12-15:
”Now if anyone builds on this foundation (Christ) with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, each one's work will become clear; for the Day will declare it, because it will be revealed by fire; and the fire will test each one's work, of what sort it is. If anyone's work which he has built on it endures, he will receive a reward. If anyone's work is burned, he will suffer loss; but he himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.”
Once genuinely converted, we are on the “team” and destined for heaven. How we play the game determines the reception or loss of eternal reward. We must serve with pure motives, a prayerful empowerment, a disciplined life, and an enduring faith.
Our Compelling and Continuing Contest
So as millions of viewers and billions of dollars are absorbed in the Super Bowl of football in just a matter of days, it is important to remember that as Christ-followers we do not look at “things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal” (2 Corinthians 4:18). For all of its temporary fame, fortune, and fun, the Super Bowl will soon fade into history and eventually burn into oblivion along with everything else in this temporary world. On the Monday after the big game, remember that your battle continues. It requires your grace-empowered best. It matters in the ultimate sense. The “trophies” are eternal.
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
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Desperate for Direction
Desperate for Direction
Oh, send out Your light and Your truth! Let them lead me;
Let them bring me to Your holy hill and to Your tabernacle.
In the darkness of our difficult moments or seasons of confusion, we need God’s light and truth. Without it our hearts are tempted to question God, fear our circumstances, and struggle with inner torment.
David was in such a moment when he wrote Psalm 43 (usually paired with Psalm 42) as the expression of his downcast spirit and his feelings of alienation from God, separation from His tabernacle, and persecution from men. He knew God was his divine strength, but did not feel His nearness. He knew God was his strength, but felt downcast in his spirit. David longed to be back in that place of worship which he describes as God's holy hill and tabernacle. For the moment, he was far away and fighting the darkness of his own feelings.
Some say David wrote this when he was under the ruthless pursuit of Saul and his army. Others conclude it was a different dark moment, probably following the betrayal by Absalom while banished in the desert, full of question and short on clarity.
Our Desperate Cry
He cried out to God, “Oh, send out Your light and Your truth! Let them lead me.” Today you may feel the same cry arising from your heart. We always need the Lord’s leadership, but tough times tend to accelerate our desperation for and openness to God’s sovereign intervention.
In another Psalm, David referred to truth and light: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path” (Psalm 119:105). As New Testament believers we have the truth of His completed word and the light of the Gospel. We enjoy the light of His presence and the Spirit of Truth, resident in our hearts. As I think about the Lord’s leadership, three principles come to mind for your encouragement today
1. He gives us enough light and truth to move forward rather than get stuck –
It is easy to get stuck in our problems and pain. Satisfied with our misery and apathy, we do not long for change and direction. David’s cry in this Psalm emerges from a moment of doubt and despair of soul. Yet, he is longing for new joy, fresh hope, and stirring praise in God’s presence. For God to lead us, we must be dissatisfied with our current status and willing to follow Him beyond where we are. Like Paul, we must desire to “press on” as we reach forward toward the goal of God’s call (Philippians 3:12-14).
In Psalm 32:8-9, God promises to instruct and teach us in the way we should go, guiding us in a personal fashion. But He warns, “Do not be like the horse or like the mule, which have no understanding, which must be harnessed with bit and bridle, else they will not come near you.” We want to be hungry and surrendered, not stubborn and stuck. In our toughest moments, one of our greatest needs is to cry out for the Lord’s leadership with a readiness to follow, according to His word and in submission to the Spirit of Christ.
2. He gives us enough light and truth to trust God rather than the “outcome” –
When David spoke of God’s word as a lamp, he was thinking of the illustration of the small oil lamps of biblical days which cast just enough light for the next few steps. Often at night, when I get up, rather than turn on a lamp, I use my cell phone to shine just enough light to show me where I am going. In a similar way, God shows us our next few steps – but not always the entire path and destination.
This engenders daily trust. If we knew the details of the entire path, we would trust in the certainty of the way, not in the guiding presence of God and His word. The old hymn reminds us, “When we walk with the Lord in the light of His word, what a glory He sheds on our way.” The chorus resounds, “Trust and obey, for there’s no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey.” Very often this unfolds a step at a time, not a mile at a time; a day at a time, not always a year at a time.
3. He gives us enough light and truth to bring us to His presence –
David specifically wanted God to lead him back to God’s holy hill and tabernacle, that place of worship in Old Testament times. Here he would rediscover joy, experience praise, and feel the deepest hope. This is similar to the writer in Psalm 73, who experienced deep angst of soul, but tasted peace and resolve when he entered the sanctuary of God (Psalm 73:17). He sensed God’s fresh presence and guidance (v. 23-24), then cried out, “Whom have I in heaven but You? And there is none upon earth that I desire besides You. My flesh and my heart fail; But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever... But it is good for me to draw near to God” (vv. 25, 26 & 28). Songwriter Matt Redman captured this same sense when he declared, “I'm coming back to the heart of worship, and it’s all about You, Jesus.”
External and Internal Direction
Externally, God directs our path, but ultimately He wants to draw our hearts. He helps us find “solutions” but ultimately wants us to again treasure the Savior. We need Him to resolve our problems and pain, but He knows our satisfaction is found in His presence. On one hand we move forward in life; at a different level, we move deeper in love. Indeed we cry,”Oh, send out Your light and Your truth! Let them lead us back to You.”
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved
Let them bring me to Your holy hill and to Your tabernacle.
In the darkness of our difficult moments or seasons of confusion, we need God’s light and truth. Without it our hearts are tempted to question God, fear our circumstances, and struggle with inner torment.
David was in such a moment when he wrote Psalm 43 (usually paired with Psalm 42) as the expression of his downcast spirit and his feelings of alienation from God, separation from His tabernacle, and persecution from men. He knew God was his divine strength, but did not feel His nearness. He knew God was his strength, but felt downcast in his spirit. David longed to be back in that place of worship which he describes as God's holy hill and tabernacle. For the moment, he was far away and fighting the darkness of his own feelings.
Some say David wrote this when he was under the ruthless pursuit of Saul and his army. Others conclude it was a different dark moment, probably following the betrayal by Absalom while banished in the desert, full of question and short on clarity.
Our Desperate Cry
He cried out to God, “Oh, send out Your light and Your truth! Let them lead me.” Today you may feel the same cry arising from your heart. We always need the Lord’s leadership, but tough times tend to accelerate our desperation for and openness to God’s sovereign intervention.
In another Psalm, David referred to truth and light: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path” (Psalm 119:105). As New Testament believers we have the truth of His completed word and the light of the Gospel. We enjoy the light of His presence and the Spirit of Truth, resident in our hearts. As I think about the Lord’s leadership, three principles come to mind for your encouragement today
1. He gives us enough light and truth to move forward rather than get stuck –
It is easy to get stuck in our problems and pain. Satisfied with our misery and apathy, we do not long for change and direction. David’s cry in this Psalm emerges from a moment of doubt and despair of soul. Yet, he is longing for new joy, fresh hope, and stirring praise in God’s presence. For God to lead us, we must be dissatisfied with our current status and willing to follow Him beyond where we are. Like Paul, we must desire to “press on” as we reach forward toward the goal of God’s call (Philippians 3:12-14).
In Psalm 32:8-9, God promises to instruct and teach us in the way we should go, guiding us in a personal fashion. But He warns, “Do not be like the horse or like the mule, which have no understanding, which must be harnessed with bit and bridle, else they will not come near you.” We want to be hungry and surrendered, not stubborn and stuck. In our toughest moments, one of our greatest needs is to cry out for the Lord’s leadership with a readiness to follow, according to His word and in submission to the Spirit of Christ.
2. He gives us enough light and truth to trust God rather than the “outcome” –
When David spoke of God’s word as a lamp, he was thinking of the illustration of the small oil lamps of biblical days which cast just enough light for the next few steps. Often at night, when I get up, rather than turn on a lamp, I use my cell phone to shine just enough light to show me where I am going. In a similar way, God shows us our next few steps – but not always the entire path and destination.
This engenders daily trust. If we knew the details of the entire path, we would trust in the certainty of the way, not in the guiding presence of God and His word. The old hymn reminds us, “When we walk with the Lord in the light of His word, what a glory He sheds on our way.” The chorus resounds, “Trust and obey, for there’s no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey.” Very often this unfolds a step at a time, not a mile at a time; a day at a time, not always a year at a time.
3. He gives us enough light and truth to bring us to His presence –
David specifically wanted God to lead him back to God’s holy hill and tabernacle, that place of worship in Old Testament times. Here he would rediscover joy, experience praise, and feel the deepest hope. This is similar to the writer in Psalm 73, who experienced deep angst of soul, but tasted peace and resolve when he entered the sanctuary of God (Psalm 73:17). He sensed God’s fresh presence and guidance (v. 23-24), then cried out, “Whom have I in heaven but You? And there is none upon earth that I desire besides You. My flesh and my heart fail; But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever... But it is good for me to draw near to God” (vv. 25, 26 & 28). Songwriter Matt Redman captured this same sense when he declared, “I'm coming back to the heart of worship, and it’s all about You, Jesus.”
External and Internal Direction
Externally, God directs our path, but ultimately He wants to draw our hearts. He helps us find “solutions” but ultimately wants us to again treasure the Savior. We need Him to resolve our problems and pain, but He knows our satisfaction is found in His presence. On one hand we move forward in life; at a different level, we move deeper in love. Indeed we cry,”Oh, send out Your light and Your truth! Let them lead us back to You.”
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved
Monday, January 3, 2011
Living Above Your Expectations
Regardless of the feeling you have about the last two weeks of holiday celebrations, it is inevitable that somewhere along the way, some year on the calendar, and in some context of celebration you have felt deep disappointment. For all of its dazzling lights, mouthwatering feasts, festive gatherings, and traditional commemorations – there is always some element of letdown at Christmas.
That is because the people we expect to be around, or at least to be nice, don’t show up at all – or show up below our acceptable standard of behavior. Letdowns occur when the experiences we had hoped to enjoy just aren’t quite like they were last year, or last decade. Disappointment springs from the great anticipation about the “things” we are going to get from others, only to realize that the reality of opening the presents did not satisfy. The warm feeling from the yesteryears of Christmas felt more like heartburn and headaches this holiday season.
I am not trying to be a Scrooge here (in fact, I personally had a pretty rewarding Christmas vacation THIS YEAR). However, we have to admit, we often set ourselves up for dissatisfaction at this time of year because our expectations are focused above the reality and in the wrong things.
Wave Two
Accepting that realization, here we are just a few days into another new year. Hang on. Another wave of disappointment might be approaching at full speed. There is something about the turn of the calendar that compels us to start again – on that diet, that reading plan, that spiritual quest, that attempt to restore a relationship, that organizational plan at home or the office, and that new beginning that we need in a myriad of areas of our life.
Psychologists tell us that January is the most depressing month of the year. One expert has specifically postulated that January 18th is the most depressing day of the year. What happened to our fresh start and all the excitement of new resolve? Disenchantment somehow spoils the soup and we are back in the same old doldrums of a frustrated life.
Great Expectations
Having painted a bit of reality, I must say quickly and enthusiastically that I believe we all need anticipation and hope. Inventor and businessman Charles F. Kettering said, “High achievement always takes place in the framework of high expectation.” “High expectations are the key to everything,” said Sam Walton, founder of Wal-Mart. I believe the Lord has made us to dream, hope, plan, and expect.
However, high expectations carry the risk of strong disappointment. Frustration comes from unmet expectations. And we especially need to guard ourselves from cultivating false expectations. People, possessions, and pleasures never ultimately meet our deepest needs and prove to be fickle and fleeting. Everything we can see with our eyes and handle with our hands in this life can ultimately let us down. Dennis Wholey notes, “When nobody around you seems to measure up, it's time to check your yardstick.” Another writer says, “Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting a bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian.”
Lessons For Our Letdowns
At one of the great low points of his life, David found himself exiled in the desert after the betrayal of his son Absalom. Forsaken by his loyal followers, exiled from all of his possessions, stripped of his regal position, and estranged from his family and friends, David faced down overwhelming disappointments. In this moment of soul recalibration he wrote, “My soul, wait silently for God alone, for my expectation is from Him. He only is my rock and my salvation; He is my defense; I shall not be moved. In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God. Trust in Him at all times, you people; Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us” (Psalm 62:5-8).
After struggling with superficial measurements and surface comparisons, the Psalmist learned that the ultimate good in life is placing our desires and hopes in the power and pleasure of the nearness of God (Psalm 73:18). He prayed, “Whom have I in heaven but You? And there is none upon earth that I desire besides You. My flesh and my heart fail; But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever” (vv. 25-26).
The lesson seems to be that we should hold our expectations loosely, but place our faith and hope firmly in the reliable faithfulness and goodness of God. Sometimes our celebrations and resolutions are invigorating and satisfying. Sometimes they fail to deliver. In it all, we must trust Christ, not circumstances, to meet our needs. One advisor said it this way: “Keep high aspirations, moderate expectations, and small needs.”
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
That is because the people we expect to be around, or at least to be nice, don’t show up at all – or show up below our acceptable standard of behavior. Letdowns occur when the experiences we had hoped to enjoy just aren’t quite like they were last year, or last decade. Disappointment springs from the great anticipation about the “things” we are going to get from others, only to realize that the reality of opening the presents did not satisfy. The warm feeling from the yesteryears of Christmas felt more like heartburn and headaches this holiday season.
I am not trying to be a Scrooge here (in fact, I personally had a pretty rewarding Christmas vacation THIS YEAR). However, we have to admit, we often set ourselves up for dissatisfaction at this time of year because our expectations are focused above the reality and in the wrong things.
Wave Two
Accepting that realization, here we are just a few days into another new year. Hang on. Another wave of disappointment might be approaching at full speed. There is something about the turn of the calendar that compels us to start again – on that diet, that reading plan, that spiritual quest, that attempt to restore a relationship, that organizational plan at home or the office, and that new beginning that we need in a myriad of areas of our life.
Psychologists tell us that January is the most depressing month of the year. One expert has specifically postulated that January 18th is the most depressing day of the year. What happened to our fresh start and all the excitement of new resolve? Disenchantment somehow spoils the soup and we are back in the same old doldrums of a frustrated life.
Great Expectations
Having painted a bit of reality, I must say quickly and enthusiastically that I believe we all need anticipation and hope. Inventor and businessman Charles F. Kettering said, “High achievement always takes place in the framework of high expectation.” “High expectations are the key to everything,” said Sam Walton, founder of Wal-Mart. I believe the Lord has made us to dream, hope, plan, and expect.
However, high expectations carry the risk of strong disappointment. Frustration comes from unmet expectations. And we especially need to guard ourselves from cultivating false expectations. People, possessions, and pleasures never ultimately meet our deepest needs and prove to be fickle and fleeting. Everything we can see with our eyes and handle with our hands in this life can ultimately let us down. Dennis Wholey notes, “When nobody around you seems to measure up, it's time to check your yardstick.” Another writer says, “Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting a bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian.”
Lessons For Our Letdowns
At one of the great low points of his life, David found himself exiled in the desert after the betrayal of his son Absalom. Forsaken by his loyal followers, exiled from all of his possessions, stripped of his regal position, and estranged from his family and friends, David faced down overwhelming disappointments. In this moment of soul recalibration he wrote, “My soul, wait silently for God alone, for my expectation is from Him. He only is my rock and my salvation; He is my defense; I shall not be moved. In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God. Trust in Him at all times, you people; Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us” (Psalm 62:5-8).
After struggling with superficial measurements and surface comparisons, the Psalmist learned that the ultimate good in life is placing our desires and hopes in the power and pleasure of the nearness of God (Psalm 73:18). He prayed, “Whom have I in heaven but You? And there is none upon earth that I desire besides You. My flesh and my heart fail; But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever” (vv. 25-26).
The lesson seems to be that we should hold our expectations loosely, but place our faith and hope firmly in the reliable faithfulness and goodness of God. Sometimes our celebrations and resolutions are invigorating and satisfying. Sometimes they fail to deliver. In it all, we must trust Christ, not circumstances, to meet our needs. One advisor said it this way: “Keep high aspirations, moderate expectations, and small needs.”
Copyright © 2011 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.
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